I have been encamped in/on my "easy-chair" for a week. Sleeping in bed was much too painful and although sleeping in a chair is less than perfect- it has been easier and more comfortable. I sleep, watch the tube, gnash my teeth over the political insanity and have had time to think...oddly enough I had no wisp of a desire to stitch...until yesterday! Things must surely be looking up! I am quite distressed over this latest "back business" and wonder how quickly the bones will heal and I when I will be able to get back to normal. I worry about the future since I have have been living with daily pain for years now...will it be the same? Worse? Better maybe!? I am not a particularly patient patient, but I also accept that I have to play this one "by the rules". The blessing, and I think it is just that, is that this could have been much worse...much worse.
- Age is not an indicator of desirability. Just as non-kitten cats have a lot to offer, older humans have stories to tell and wisdom to share. Don't judge everyone only by what you think you know about them....we all have had fascinating lives before the moment we meet.
- Don't judge a cat or human by it's "cover story". Some cats and people need safety and security to really blossom and the we may appear at first glance most likely isn't the real story.....sort of goes along with the lesson above.
- Yes, of course I am worthy! Of great, unconditional love, good food, spoiling, tenderness and praise.
- Love, acceptance, and kindness can coax out the deepest love of even the most tentaive, life-weary and fearful of us....both 4 and 2 legged.
- Be joyful! Enjoy the simple blessings of pettings, kisses, food, warmth, routines and love. Roll around, act goofy and revel in life!
- Go with the flow. Nap when you need to, eat what you like, toss your toys in the air if you want to. Enjoy kind attentions but don't be afraid to make it clear that you need time alone. Tomorrow is another day and when something not-so-good happens...it will pass. Things are always better after a nap.
- Life can be a gamble. Sometimes the path you are on just does not work out, but finding a new way forward can bring unimagined blessings and love.
Tilly has brought so much into our lives. I first saw her as I was approaching my second back surgery in 2010. I wasn't looking to adopt or be adopted, but I do have "a thing" for white four-paws.There she was, ready and willing to take on the challenge of two humans who wanted nothing more than to smother her with love. In truth, she is the best gift that surgery brought and now she is a gift for healing.
The lessons come every day! So love your 4 pawed companions as deeply as you can and learn to see the lessons that you can learn from them!
Fall has arrived in our neck of the woods...it's the season when I miss my New England home the most...but even here in the most. Orthern place of the Pacific Northwest the colors are are saturated and beautiful!
OMG---well, I'm glad it's not worse! And hope it ends up being BETTER.... as for the rest, this is why everyone, me included, loves you!ReplyDelete
OUCH! And I know the impatience which runs through our veins when I broke my wrist and had surgery a couple of years ago. Do "follow the rules"! We have done our time and now we can sit back and take it easy (easier at least! lol) Be a cat. Go find a nice sunny spot and nap. As I struggle to get over a cold, I remember what my doctor told me 'as you get older, it takes longer to heal'. Not exactly what you want to hear, but you need to heed.ReplyDelete
Hope you are feeling better. I have had an incident similar to yours with my knee and pain. I have learned over the years ( and I have had many of those years) that sometimes we all need to slow down and enjoy what our limitations teach us. Snuggling up with a four pawed friend sometimes can be the best medicine. You have Tilly, I have a shelter dog called Peaches.ReplyDelete
Ruby the cat and i see that Tilly can be a healer companion at this time as you follow her ways.I hope you can pace yourself with sunny window naps and hand stitching as you regain your mobility health. be well,sonjaReplyDelete